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Just sharing..... If you missed my video presentation this morning, Here is a short thought that started me thinking about getting clarity through writing and being successful in life! Reach out to me here on MeetCoach or through my profile on Bark.com (https://bit.ly/MHCbarkprofile) for how I can help you or other people excel in faith, family, and freedom so that you can be a REAL Success on the stage of life that matters most, their front door! #writingtip #lifecoach #johnmaxwell #johnmaxwellquote #successfulthinking #successquotes #mastershandcoach #howsuccessfulpeoplethink #clarity

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Confession time… The person who can do the most building up of my soul is also the person who can do the most damage to my soul. Can I get an AMEN from any person who has a healthy and even not so healthy marriage? John Maxwell in How Successful People Think caught up how the writer of Proverbs who knew that very factor when he wrote when sharp people sharpen one another. My wife sharpens me daily in more ways than I can count. Now she can also pierce me if she really wants to. I am glad that she chooses to sharpen me. I must choose to do more of that with her in return. That is something I must consciously remember to do not always through my words, though that is extremely important, but through my nonverbal responses and tonal quality of what I do say. For communication is not always just in words. In another way of looking at this idea, I have heard it said you are the amalgamation of the top five people you hang out with the most. Choose those people well. If you are the smartest of the top five people you hang out with, you had best get sharper, wiser, more astute, intellectual, or charismatic acquaintances! I can say that I have associations of people in which I am not the smartest nut on the block. I am thankful for that. I may be one who can use words better than others but that doesn’t mean I am smarter than others. It just means I am more literate than others. Some say that is an advantage while others say a disadvantage. Potato or Potahtoe? You get what I mean. My point is this. In marriage, your wife or your husband can be the one that sharpens you the most or pierces you the most. Be careful to use your tongue correctly especially as a spouse. My second point, pick your close associates very carefully because if they are not wise, you won’t be wise either! It’s a proven fact! #marriagetip #communicationstip #mastershandcoach #howsucceesspeoplethink #johnmaxwell #johnmaxwellquote #wiseassociations #wisesayings #successquote #successfulthinking #marriagecoach #lifecoach

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Can I tell you a fun fact about my wife? I am pretty sure she will be okay with it. After all, it’s a weakness of mine that she is good at, and I am thankful for it. When I married her, I was blessed by her having this quality. Those of you who are married will know what I mean very shortly and those of you longing to be married will get it readily, I am sure. Without further a due… Let’s begin with a hand raising exercise. Put both hands in the air if you have heard of the idea that when you get married you marry your opposite in personality? For instance, one likes the toilet seat up and the other likes it down. That’s true in this family here. Keep your hands up if agree with that you have heard that. Now keep them up if you have heard that you marry your same strengths in every sense of the word—you have the same exact strengths! Why do I see you putting your hands down? You mean you don’t usually marry a person with your same strengths? I certainly didn’t. That would have been really boring to me. Now here is where you may think I am really nuts or you may relate with me based on your personality! Before I married Shanon, she was my trainer at a job. While training me, I got to know her strengths and weaknesses. I was engaged to another woman so I had no interest in Shanon other than as a good friend and co-worker. But as such, I wanted to know Shanon’s strengths from her strength’s finder profile as we talked about personality things together because we both liked talking about such things. Months after my other relationship broke up and Shanon and I decided to pursue a relationship with each other, I knew what she was good at, and she knew my strengths at least from a profile perspective. On my end, I was thrilled by that, and I am pretty sure on Shanon’s end she liked it as well. To this day, we like each other’s strengths and are still figuring out how to leverage them the best for our future endeavors personally and professionally. Sometimes we fail—imagine that! Sometimes we learn! That sounds like a book I know of. Stay tuned for more on that one. Shanon is my ideation queen and I know that full well. If I need ideas about something, I go to her. People with ideation are exceptionally fascinated by ideas. They find connections between seemingly disparate phenomena. She is amazing at coming up with ways to make things food wise, creative wise, mentally wise, marketing wise, art wise, and putting some what might be random details together that I might not catch being detailed oriented and more methodical in my approaches to rationality. Right there, we need each other to balance each other, and we married someone who can balance us out if we let each other balance us out and not argue about it. Therein lies the key to a healthy and happy home—what initially attracted us to each other must not be what drives us nuts years into our marriage. To that end of not letting what attracted us to each other be what drives us apart, we seek to put good things into each other and help one another focus our minds on things above and not on things below. We seek to push one another to think about whatever is true, noble, right, pure, lovely, admirable, excellent or praiseworthy, and so much the more as we see the days approaching when we give an accounting of everything we do here on this earth. We know that as a couple we want our message to be that which admonishes on another with all wisdom through psalms, hymns, and songs from the Spirit, singing to God with gratitude in our hearts. And whatever we do whether in word or dead, do it all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through Him (Colossians 3:16-17). In doing that, we prime our pump for good ideas. We encourage you to do the same thing! Let me know how I can help you be a REAL Success on the stage of life that matters most to you, your front door! In doing that l provide HOPE in faith, family and freedom! Sincerely, Dustin DeBoer of Master’s Hand Coach.

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May I ask you a question? What is the most valuable thing you have? Thinking is hard work but if you think too hard about this you may have to rethink it! You have something that is priceless and you may not realize it! The real question is do you mine it? For it is like gold! It needs to be mined for its real value which is priceless!

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I have a novel marriage concept to share. Will you permit me to share it with you? My wife and I are reading a book together and it happens to be a success book that stands the test of time. This is a book that I have read several times before, but this is the first time that we are reading it together. Its author wrote this book after taking 25 years to study thousands of people of his day who were overtly successful. He was in a sense commissioned by one of the elite successful people of his day to study the people but without initial pay. Nothing up front at all to do so. He would have to pay his way through the study but what he would come out with is a masterplan that if followed would yield him great riches. It certainly did that and more. But it started with in-depth study and thinking and interviewing many successful people. Matter of fact, one quote that this author states is the following. “There is something radically wrong with a civilization, and a system of education, which permit 98% of the people to go through life as failures. But I did not write this book for the purpose of moralizing on the rights and wrongs of the world; that would require a book a hundred times the size of this one.” In this book, he outlines what it takes to be successful not just as individuals but also as a marriage and a family. Today’s post from How Successful People Think by John Maxwell quotes Napoleon Hill who wrote Think and Grow Rich, the book that my wife and I are reading. In the first chapter of that book, Thoughts are things, Napoleon Hill says the following. One of the main weaknesses of mankind is the average man’s familiarity with the word “impossible.” He knows all the rules which will not work. He knows all the things which cannot be done. This book was written for those who seek the rules which have made others successful and are willing to stake everything on those rules. Success comes to those who become success conscious. Failure comes to those who indifferently allow themselves to become failure conscious. The object of this book is to help all who seek it to learn the art of changing their minds from failure conscious to success consciousness. Another weakness found in altogether too many people is the habit of measuring everything, and everyone, by their own impressions and beliefs. Some persons who read this will believe that they cannot think and grow rich, because their thought habits have been steeped in poverty, want, misery, failure, and defeat. Napoleon Hill Think and Grow Rich Page 9. Wow, powerful words for those who want to have success not just individually but as a family. It recalls the fact that I heard many times over in the business environment I was in. “If you don’t fix it in your generation, you pass it onto the next generation. Stop the generational curse and solve the problems! Break the patterns of curses and change them for the better. You don’t have to live the way your former generations did.” In summary, my wife and I are reading the book, Think and Grow Rich together through one time. Just reading it and talking about what we are reading. We will go back through it as a study with a video mastermind we have access to through the Maxwell Leadership Team and Empowered Living along with the study guide. On top of that, we have a biblical companion guide to reference as well. We are diving in deep to it as we prepare to be more successful ourselves and then be able to share our insights with you. Stay tuned here for our progress. We are mining for our gold, and we will share it with you as we go along and eventually have a mastermind with those who want to be successful. Would you like to join us on a quest to be not just successful but significant? Follow our posts and find out more of what we mean by helping other people excel in faith, family, and freedom so that they can be a REAL Success on the stage of life that matters most, their front door!